articles

"Slutty and the City," Penthouse Forum, February 2007 issue
"Plan B Crucial in Fight for Reproductive Rights," Huffington Post
"Sex in a Bad Mood", Cosmo UK, November 2006 issue
"Fearless About Sexual Freedom," Huffington Post, October 12, 2006
"Sex in a Bad Mood", Cosmo UK, November 2006 issue
"How to Edit Anthologies," MBToolbox, June 5, 2006
"Sex in the First Person," Village Voice, February 7, 2006
"On Running An Erotic Reading Series," Buzz, Balls & Hype blog, January 16, 2006
Citizen Media Critic, Violet Magazine, Mediabistro.com, November 21, 2005
"It Takes Two To Make a Book Go Right," Mediabistro.com, November 14, 2005
"An Ode to Straight Girl Crushes", The Black Table, October 13, 2005
"Best Hunger-Inducing Website - Slice NY," Village Voice, October 2005
"Best Education for Perverts - The Eulenspiegel Society" Village Voice, October 2005
"Best Man in Pink - Morty Diamond" Village Voice, October 2005
"Best Potty-Mouthed, Guitar-Slinging Comedian - Jessy Delfino" Village Voice, October 2005
"Best Overused, Overcrowded, and Overrated Bar for Hipster Birthday Parties - The Magician" Village Voice, October 2005
"Don't Date Him Girl--But Don't Write About It Online, Either," The Black Table, September 6, 2005
"Citizen Media Critic: his&hers magazine," Mediabistro.com, August 15, 2005
"Erotica, Sex and Spanking," The Happy Booker blog, August 3, 2005
Happy ending massage article, Metro (NY), July 2005
"Citizen Media Critic: Lucky Magazine," Mediabistro, February 9, 2005
Various entries, Village Voice Holiday preview 2004, Village Voice, November 2004
Various contributions, Village Voice Best Of 2004 issue, Village Voice, October 2004
Axis of Eve Panty Flash article, Blacktable.com, September 2, 2004
Quoted in "Breasts: An Owner's Manual" by Shari Goldhagen, Complete Woman, September/October issue
Cinekink article, Mercy Magazine, Fall 2004
Poppi Kramer article, Velvetpark, Summer 2004 issue
Sex Workers Art Show article, Mercy Magazine, Spring 2004 issue
"Making Plans Four Months In Advance," The Black Table, July 12, 2004
"Wearing Kitty Ears," The Black Table, June 29, 2004
"Gay is Better?" Gay Artist Panel article, New York Blade, June 25, 2004
Summer LGBT Theater Festivals Preview, Culturebot, June 2004
"My Ode to the Push-Up Bra", The Black Table, June 1, 2004
"Jilling Off In Public," The Black Table, May 25, 2004
Village Voice Cabin Fever Listing on Nude Beaches, May 11, 2004
NY Burlesque Festival preview, GO NYC Magazine, May 2004
"Free Movie Tickets" Spam, The Black Table, April 6, 2004
Early Bird Porn Stores, The Black Table, March 30, 2004
"The Continuing Presence of Monica Lewinsky," The Black Table, March 2004
"The G Word" (essay on the word "girlfriend"), Diva, March 2004 issue
"Looks Can Be Deceiving," Village Voice Sex in the First Person Section, Feburary 11, 2004
Rocker/Lawyer article, Alternative Press
The "G" Word essay, DIVA, February 2004
"Looks Can Be Deceiving," Village Voice, Sex in the First Person section, February 4, 2004
Toys in Babeland Soho article, Velvet Park magazine, Winter 2003/2004 issue
The Pontani Sisters preview, Village Voice Holiday Preview, November 2003
Gay Retirement Home article, GO NYC, October 2003
Phone Sex article, Playgirl, October 2003
Cyber-Dyke Network article, AVN Online, September 2003
Pink Steel article, Gay City News, May 16, 2003
History of Girl article, Rockrgrl, Spring 2003 issue
"Confessions of a Blowjob Queen," Playgirl, April 2003
Carly Milne Gives the Scoop on Women and Porn, Yesportal.com, April 2003
Sadie Allison Guides You Through the Wide World of Sex Toys, Yesportal.com, March 2003
Fatale Forges Into 21st Century, Yesportal.com, March 2003
Claudia Varrin Uncovers New York's Fetish Underground, Yesportal.com, February 2003
Red Hot Erotica article (on Red Hot Divas), Yesportal.com, February 2003
"I Survived A Gay Wedding Expo," Girlfriends, January 2003
On Being A "Good Girl" Porn Writer, Erotic Authors Association, August 2002
My Bi Journey, Lesbianation.com, August 2002
My Bi Journey, Soapboxgirls.com, July 2002
"The State of Lesbian Erotica", DIVA, July 2002
From fan to friend and back - my fabulous role models (an essay on Tristan Taormino and Mary Lou Lord, Soapboxgirls, April 2002
"What Monica Lewinsky Can Teach Us About Sex" essay, Lesbianation.com, March 2002
Porno Preferences, Soapboxgirls, February 2002
Heather Findlay interview about On Our Backs: The Best Erotic Fiction, Lesbianation.com, February 2002
Domina ~Z~ Erotic Wrestling article, Lesbianation.com, February 2002
My New Year's Sexolutions, Cleansheets.com, January 2002
Hooters birthday story, Lesbianation.com, November 2001
Fear essay, Soapboxgirls.com, October 2001
"The Pleasures of a Cordless" (phone sex essay), New York Metropolis, Volume 1, No. 4, September 20, 2001
Bisexuality Essay, Oxygen.com, Sexpressions column, July 2001
"Thanks, But No Thanks," Soapboxgirls.com, July 2001 sex issue
Princesses of Porn article, Lesbianation.com, June 2001
Vulva Love article, Lesbianation.com, June 2001
Put On Your Red Coat, Skirt! magazine, January 2001
Live Nude Girl essay, Sexilicious.com, September 2000
Living Single essay, Technodyke.com, September 2000
Dred article, Lesbianation.com, September 2000
"On Seeking Those Magic Sexual Moments," Dare Magazine, summer 2000 issue
Heather Has Two Mommies article, Citysearch NY, June 2000
Firepussy Fetish article, Lesbianation.com, June 2000
"My Vibrator, Myself", Cleansheets, Essay, May 2000
College Bound Magazine, various articles
"Nurturing Is Part of Fatherhood," Op-Ed piece, San Francisco Chronicle, 6/6/95
"Accepting Anger", Guest Column, Daily Californian

book, music & film reviews

Book Review: My Girlfriend Comes to the City and Beats Me Up by Stephen Elliott, October 19, 2006
Cancer Vixen by Marisa Acocella Marchetto, New York Post, October 1, 2006
Girlbomb: A Halfway Homeless Memoir by Janice Erlbaum, New York Post, April 2, 2006
He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man by Ian Kerner, New York Post, February 5, 2006
Love Walked In by Marisa de los Santos, New York Post, January 8, 2006
"It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Breakup Buddy by Greg Behrendt and Amira Ruotola-Behrendt," New York Post, September 11, 2005
"Of Human Bondage: Lusty Lady rates the hardcore action in 9 Songs," The Village Voice, July 26, 2005
The Undomestic Goddess by Sophie Kinsella, New York Post, July 24, 2005
Confessions of a Recovering Slut and Other Love Stories by Hollis Gillespie, New York Post, July 17, 2005
Bookmark Now: Writing in Unreaderly Times, New York Post, May 29, 2005
Smashed: Story of a Drunken Girlhood, The Village Voice, February 23, 2005
She Hate Me article, Southern Voice, August 20, 2004
"Spike Lee's Booty-bumpin' lesbian sex thang", New York Blade, July 23, 2004
SCUM Manifesto, The Village Voice, June 21, 2004
Kings & Queens: Queers at the Prom, The Village Voice, June 14, 2004
Article on Ian Kerner's She Comes First, Zink, June 2004 issue
"Books That Rocked Our World Roundup", On Our Backs 20th Anniversary issue
My Mother Likes Women review, New York Blade, May 21, 2004
Mommy's Little Girl: On Sex, Motherhood, Porn and Cherry Pie, The Village Voice, February 9, 2004
New Nonfiction Books Unlock Naughty Secrets, Yesportal.com, April 2003
New Books That Span the Sexual Spectrum, Yesportal.com, March 2003
Passion Fruit Video article, Velvet Park, November/December 2002 issue
Secretary film review, Eros-london.com, October 2002
Review of Going Down and The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men, Gaywired.com, May 2002